Sue Johnson

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 * https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hiVijMLH2-k
 * Sex, intimiteit en verbondenheid
 * "Funny five minutes"
 * What is good sex?
 * In our society there is a buzz about good sex. Good sex is about extreme sensations, constant novelty and expertise in taken realy exotic sexual positions.
 * According to Sue Johnson this is not what good sex is about. It is about the safety of your emotional connection.
 * Science tells us we are bonding animals. We need an emotional connection to feel safe.
 * Only when you take the need for connection and safety into account, other instincts like our need to explore and play, need for sexualit) can come online.
 * Bonding theories say that passion is not just about desire. Passion is about this longing for connection, twinned with safety, that allows you to have erotic play.
 * 1. Sex is not just about pleasure. It is a bonding activity. When we only think about our 'sweety' we are flooded by a hormon.
 * 2. People with the best sex are people that are in long term, happy, relationships. "Synhrony-sex"
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